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January 19th, 2012

The Perfectly-Fitting Sports Bra, from Someone Who Knows

Running Sports Bra from Bare Necessities

By Cindy Prosser, Guest Blogger

My entry into the modeling world took an unexpected turn when I agreed to model underwear at the young age of 20. While twenty is actually considered “old” in the modelling business, it felt very young to me when I was presented with the oportunity to stand around in very little clothing, in front a very large crowd (who knew taking photographs took so many people?). In the end, I said ‘Yes’ to the job, headed down a new career path, and quickly developed a level of self-confidence I hadn’t expected. Soon, I was immersed in the world of undergarments. I was surprised to learn what a great gift the perfectly-fitting bra truly is, and they became the #1 item on my Christmas gift-giving list!

During the last five months of my modelling career, I found myself exclusively modeling sports wear—an equally empowering and invigorating experience—and this was when my passion for sports bras was sparked. But life threw me another curve, as life often does, when I found out I was pregnant. My modeling days came to an end, but pregnancy gave me the opportunity to not only give birth to the best thing that has ever happened to me, but to also look at the world of undergarments from a new perspective: As a researcher and writer. Today, I get to write about all things bras, underwear, lingerie, nightgowns (and more!), and I absolutely love every minute of it.

Now, about those sports bras…

There is a ton of information out there on how to choose the right bra style and size for everyday wear. But those How-To lists usually neglect one of the most important bra styles—the sports bra. Whether you are finding your Zen in a yoga class, running a trail, or cross-country skiing, it is very important that you have the perfect fitting sports bra. Why? Because not only can a poorly-fitting sports bra be uncomfortable, it can also lead to health problems, such as stretched ligaments and sagging. So here are my tips for finding the perfect fit:

1. Get professionally measured

One of the best ways to get the proper fit is to head to a lingerie store or the lingerie section of your favorite department store and ask to be measured. These ladies are professionally trained to help women find the right size and style to suit them. Use them as a resource.

2. Know how to find your size

If you prefer to shop on your own or online, there are some easy ways to measure yourself at home with a soft measuring tape. If you don’t have one, you can find one at a local sewing or craft store. To measure, just follow these simple steps:

  • Wear a non-padded bra
  • Wrap the measuring tape around your rib cage, under your breasts and your bra’s band. When doing so, make sure you can breathe normally. If you can’t, the measuring tape is wrapped too tight.
  • Take that measurement in inches and add five. If your rib cage measures more than 33 inches, add three inches instead. If the sum of the two numbers is an odd number, round up to the next even number. That is your band size.
  • Next, measure your bust. Pull the measuring tape around the fullest part of your bust, checking your back to make sure the tape is straight and not twisted. Round up to the nearest whole number and that’s your bust size.
  • Finally, to determine your cup size, subtract your band size from your bust size. The number of inches difference determines what size cup you are. Here’s a guide:

One-inch difference – Cup size A

Two-inch difference – Cup size B

Three-inch difference – Cup size C

Four-inch difference – Cup size D

Five-inch difference – Cup size DD

Note: Some sports bras don’t follow traditional measurements and are only available in S, M, L, and XL. In this case, trying on different styles and sizes is the best way to find the right fit, but you should still follow the pointers below.

3. Try on several

Once you’ve found your size and selected a few styles, try on several to see what works best. When trying on, make sure:

  • Your breasts are in the cups
  • There is no spillage on the top or sides
  • The band fits snugly (Note: It should be more snug than a regular bra without causing spillage)
  • The straps are comfortable. If they are too big, they will fall off your shoulders. If they are too small, they will dig in.

4. Look in the mirror

Turn around while looking in the mirror to make sure your sports bra sits in the same place on your front and back. A properly fitting bra should fall in the same place everywhere without riding up.

5. Do the “jiggle test”

When trying on the sports bra, jump up and down and see, a) if your breasts stay in place, and b) if you’re comfortable. This is especially important when fitting sports bras because they will be supporting you at your most active, when you need it most.

6. Replace every 6 – 12 months

Many women are wearing sports bras without proper support, simply because their bras are worn out. Sports bras support you during intense workouts and therefore tend to wear out sooner than other types of bras. To ensure that your are comfortable and getting the best support available, make sure to replace yours every 6–12 months.

The tips above are key to helping you find a great-fitting sports bra. Next time you go bra shopping, print off this list and carry it with you. And don’t forget your measurements!

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Cindy Prosser modeled underwear until the baby… now she’s a part time, freelance writer, and a full time mom. When not glamorously overdressing for grocery store visits, she stays busy writing about plus size sports bras from Bare Necessities. For all things Bare Necessities, like us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter!

Disclaimer: The Know It All Mom posted this article because Cindy submitted a Guest Post story idea that I thought would be informative for all women. I hope it was! But just so you know, I was not compensated, either monetarily nor in the form of product. If you would like to be a guest blogger on http://theknowitallmom.com, please refer to the Submissions guidelines and send me your stories or ideas.

January 3rd, 2012

Get Published by The Know It All Mom

Recently, I have received many inquiries about guest posting on my site. The Universe is trying to tell me something. The message: Get back to the beginning. When I started this blog, my intention was to create a forum for parents everywhere to share their experiences, ideas, challenges, successes, frustrations, questions and concerns. But I am not good at delegating. I have tried to carry the blog myself, which has lead to months of fervent activity, followed by periods of complete inactivity. As I freely admit on my About Me page, I don’t actually know it all, but I’ve always believed that together we can figure it out, sharing a few laughs, and maybe even a few tears, along the way. So let’s share.

Beginning, in January, 2012—that means NOW folks, for all of you writers and wannabes out there!—I will be accepting submissions for publication. If you would like your creative non-fiction writing to be considered for publication on The Know It All Mom, here is what you need to do:

  1. Email your story ideas or completed pieces that have NOT been published elsewhere to tkiam@theknowitallmom.com.
  2. Type the word SUBMISSION and your word count in the subject line of your email, please, otherwise your work might just get lost in the plethora of email that finds it’s way to me, and that would be sad. :( Submissions must be creative non-fiction. Although I love to read poetry, short stories, and most genres of fiction, the Know It All Mom is not the place for these children to find a home.
  3. Keep submissions under 500 words. Longer pieces may be considered, but only if the content cannot possibly be covered effectively without saying more.
  4. Expect to be edited. This is in no way an indication that you are not a talented, gifted individual with the literary genius of Jane Austen, but rather a simple fact that it’s my blog, I like what I like, and I reserve the right to post things only after I am 100% satisfied.
  5. Do not send attachments. Please copy and paste your submission into the body of your email. Attachments can be cumbersome. They don’t open, they lose formatting, and are generally a pain in the butt. Pasting text directly into your email simplifies everything. Attachments will not be opened. Thank you in advance.
  6. Make sure your work is thematically consistent with the Know It All Mom. To understand who I am and the mandate behind my blog, the About Me page is an excellent place to start. Note that I prefer anecdotal, personal stories of life as a mother/woman/wife/daughter/sister/friend/parent. Itemized How-To or Top-Ten-type lists are NOT my favourite. I’d rather read how you developed the list than the list itself. I like honesty. I like writing that comes from the heart with a straight-forward, no-nonsense approach. I do not like self-indulgence. This is a fine line to walk, I know, I tip-toe along it every time I sit down to compose something. Still, it must be done. I like people with opinions, even opinions I do not share. Disagreement is essential to dialogue, so take a stand and tell me what you think. If you can make me laugh, great! If you can make me cry, that’s good, too. To familiarize yourself with the type of stories I am interested in receiving, read some of my posts, e.g., Confession Time, Coming from a Place of Yes, or One Joint is One Too Many, or better yet, read some of my published pieces found here: Writing. If you are still in doubt, email anyway. The worst that can happen is that I say, “No.”
  7. Do not expect an immediate response. I will respond to you, I promise, but as we all know, “Life is what happens while we’re making other plans.” (John Lennon said that, I think…anyone know?) In other words, I plan to get back to everyone as quickly as I can, regardless of the outcome of your submission, but only after the realities of my day-to-day life as a wife, mother, chauffeur, chef, laundress, etc., have been managed.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you very soon. Happy writing!

August 18th, 2010

Getting back to “Me”

To be honest, and I’m all about brutal honesty behind the comforting veil of this blog, I am in a rut. Since returning from Europe I’ve felt displaced and out of sync; I am floundering and undirected. So here, now, for every-one’s eyes, is a list (a l…o…n…g list) of things I need to get back to Me:

I need more yoga. I need to stretch, breathe, bend and focus.

I need to write more, blog more, read more.

I need to find the eloquence of Earnest Girl, the honesty of Her Bad Mother, the commitment of PhD in Parenting and the moxy of the Yummy Mummy Club.

I need my husband to come home from his business trip. Things are better with him by my side.

I need to move. My place of residence and my body.

I need more tea, less coffee.

I need to watch less TV, eat more fibre, get more sleep.

I need to have a long, leisurely lunch with my girl-friends.

I need a FAB new pair of shoes. Something with heels. Something impractical. Something red.

I need my new 10-week-old kitten to overcome the retrovirus ravaging his body.

I need to judge less, embrace more and just say, “Yes.” What I need is an attitude adjustment.

I need to learn a craft, something right-brain oriented and therapeutic in nature: sewing, knitting, perhaps découpage?

I need rain. Not just any rain, but a heavy, cleansing, deluge from the skies to wash away the malaise and make everything new again.

I need fresh flowers on my table.

I need to de-clutter. My house. My closet. My mind.

I need a glass of fine red wine. Blasted Church vineyard’s Nothing Sacred would do very nicely.

I need fruit, organically grown and fresh from the trees of the interior of B.C. No hot house fruits need apply.

I need to do better. Just two weeks back into a ‘Regular Schedule,’ and this is what I have fed Little Miss over the past 36 hours: Take-out Chinese food for dinner last night (including deep-fried chili chicken wings, which, I suspect, are not really Chinese); a Starbucks ham-and-cheese breakfast sandwich and chai tea latte for breakfast this morning; topped off with a left-over dry ginger beef and Chow Mein (veggie Chow Mein, mind you, my one saving grace) for lunch today. I am contemplating pancakes for dinner tonight. I need to be less lazy. I need my “Good Mom” badge revoked.

I need to express patience when I don’t have it, gratitude for all of my blessings and to exude pure joy at the many, many little things that make me happy everyday. I need to remember these.

But mostly, I need to be myself. I need to let that be enough.

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Anyone else out there stuck in an emotional rut? Tell me what you need to get back to You.

May 18th, 2010

Divorce is a Four Letter Word

I wrote the following essay for the BC Council of Families. It was recently published in their magazine, Family Connections, in volume 14, issue 2, Spring 2010. I am reproducing it here, with their permission, because it’s the truth and because, right now, I can’t write anything better to capture my thoughts on divorce.

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An intense rain drummed down from tumultuous, black clouds. My husband and I were arguing again, and it was ugly. His response was flight, mine fight, but he was winning. He quickly reached our garage, car keys in hand, desperate to escape from both storms. I vaguely recall the hum of the electronic garage door inching upwards, focused, as I was, on my desire to not let him go. I was not ready for my marriage to end. Frantic, and with my options limited, I positioned myself bodily between him, now in the driver’s seat of our running SUV, and his escape route. I staked my ground hoping that my stance could convince him of what my pleadings could not: that he needed to stay. A vengeful wind ripped through my hair, long, Medusa-like tentacles encircling my head with the fury of the night while the cold penetrated my clothing. I shivered. Our infant daughter, our Little Miss, was in my arms.

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March 28th, 2010

Getting to Know Me

For those of you just getting to know me, my life as a mother has not always been quite as straight-forward as it now seems. Rather than reinvent the wheel, or in this case re-write it, follow the link below to an essay I recently published on HybridMom.com to learn more:

http://www.hybridmom.com/articles/features/my-guilty-heart-one-most-emotional-choices-moms-face

October 27th, 2009

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